THE POWER OF SMALL STEPS: HOW TO BUILD HEALTHY HABITS WITHOUT FEELING OVERWHELMED
- Valentina

- Oct 23
- 2 min read
Have you ever started a new wellness goal with great enthusiasm — choosing healthier foods, signing up for the gym, going for daily walks — only to realize, after a few weeks, that your motivation fades and you slip back into old habits?

t’s not a lack of willpower: it’s often the method that doesn’t reflect how real change works. In this article, I’ll share a different approach based on small steps, gradual evolution, and building habits that last. As a Health Coach, I believe that true well-being comes from doing better, not doing more.
Why Small Steps Work (and Big Changes Fail)
Research shows that focusing on micro-habits has huge potential. You don’t need to wait for “the perfect moment” or summon heroic willpower. What you need are truly simple actions that, when repeated, build new behavior.
Studies on habit formation also show that repeating an action in a stable context leads to automaticity — it becomes something we do almost without thinking.
When changes are too big, they demand a lot of mental energy and often don’t fit into real life.
How to Start: The Small Steps Method
Here are the steps I use in my Health Coaching sessions — and that you can start applying right away:
Choose one tiny habit: not “I’ll work out five times a week” but “I’ll walk for 10 minutes today.” Science shows that starting small makes the action almost inevitable.
Anchor the habit to an existing routine: for example, right after breakfast or after brushing your teeth. This technique, known as habit stacking, really helps.
Make it easy and enjoyable: if it’s complicated or not rewarding, you’re more likely to quit. The reward — that positive feeling — is essential.
Repeat consistently: repetition is key. Several studies show that forming a new habit can take many days of practice.
Track and celebrate small wins: even a simple daily checkmark is powerful. Every little success motivates you to keep going.
Three Micro-Habits You Can Try Right Now
Drink a glass of water as soon as you wake up (30 seconds).
Do five minutes of stretching or deep breathing before dinner.
Turn off your phone 15 minutes before bedtime and use that time for a relaxing ritual (reading, journaling).
These are simple actions, but if done consistently, they can transform your well-being over time.
The Role of Coaching: Why You Don’t Have to Do It Alone
As a Health Coach, my goal is to guide you in choosing the right habit for you — one that feels engaging, realistic, and sustainable. Often, what holds us back isn’t a lack of resources but confusion or uncertainty about what truly works for us.
In an initial discovery call, we can explore that together — where you are now, where you want to go, and which micro-action makes the most sense for your journey.
Remember: well-being isn’t a race, it’s a steady march. Small daily steps, more than bursts of willpower, are what create lasting change.




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